Baby Weight

Dear Jonez, My girlfriend is pregnant but I'm not sure if I want her to keep it. I love my girl very much but right now isn't a good time to bring a child into this world. I haven't been motivated enough to go to work on a regular basis so I've been spending money from my savings. My girl is scared and I console her as much as needed, but am I wrong for thinking she should abort?
-Possible dead beat Dad

Dear PDBD,
It's normal to feel scared during this time. Every future parent question their ability to be a good provider, and a good role model. As well provide their child with things the life they themselves didn't have. I commend you for being there for your girlfriend as you should be. Are you wrong for wanting her to have an abortion, that depends on who you ask, but I will say this, If the possibility of her having a child scared you then as much as it does now then you shouldve used a condom. You may not have been motivated before but you now have a lil life that's going to depend on you 'Dad' so I believe that's enough motivation you'll ever need. Just trust on yourself, keep being there for your girl and everything will be fine. P.S Send me a photo when the baby is born please, I would love to show the world, your pride and joy. -TJ