DreamChaser.

Hey folks, Im so extremely proud of my ex boyfriend, Bob (Alias). He is going to ft. Jackson today/tomorrow to start military training. Everyone who knows me know we (Bob & I) had a horrible breakup two years ago but we've managed to keep in touch. No it def wasnt easy and it didnt happen right away. I was furious with him and his actions and he was frustrated that I didnt stay to work things out. Sometimes there is still a strain on the 'friendship' because we both want two different things, he wants to be with me again and I ... dont. I will always care about him but I dont think Im ready for another episode of what we shared. Dont get me wrong, our relationship was a pretty good one, more ups than downs BUT he chose to be unfaithful. And there are somethings I refuse to allow, he (unfortunately) picked the one I wont tolerate.

After about a year, we were able to chat about some of the things that went wrong in the relationship. Which helped me to get a better understanding of things but I still wasnt ready to be anything more than a distant friend. After he got a girlfriend, which came about 4 months after we broke up, things got a lil more relaxed. FYI his girlfriend name is Tiffany, I call her the 'remix' since Im the original. But a week ago he hit me up and sincerely apologized for all the wrong doings of the past and I had to accept his apology. Then he told me he was leaving.

I cant say Im sad that he's leaving, Im actually really proud of him. He is going after something that he has wanted to do for a while now. Even though things kept getting in the way he never gave up and thats what makes him one of my favorite people (at the moment). So Bob when you read this, Just know that you have definitely made me happy in the decisions you've made for yourself.

Tristan J