Special Announcement!

Hopefully this will be the last posting about this (I doubt it) but I have to get this off my chest. As a female I know that sometimes we can let our emotions make a fool of us BUT when the truth is clear as day in front of your face you cant ignore it. Ladies please stop chasing after these men that clearly dont want you! A persons actions speak much louder & clearer than words, so if he isnt giving you the type of love or attention you require why continue on? Ok ok, I know I sound a lil harsh but look at it from my point of view, I see my friends being treated poorly and theres nothing I can do about it. I try to limit my opinion because I dont want to create a rift in the friendship, but I do get tired of hearing about all thats wrong in your relationship.

If a man wants to change and be all the things you want him to be, he will only do that IF HE WANTS TO! Theres nothing in this world or even the next world that you can do to make him change his ways. Yes you should accept his flaws along with the qualities you love about him but If you're settling just so that you can say you have a man, then thats pathetic! Yes you can have a life without being someone's girlfriend. I may not be the best example but hey look at me! I dont have a boyfriend but Im not just sitting on my hands at home. No I date... alot! Im happy maintaining different levels of friendship with different guys. And No sex hasnt been introduced with any of the guys, hell they are free to sex whomever they choose except for me. I have an idea of what I want and I havent really found the unavoidable spark in any of them so Im going to keep dating and having a good time until I find the one Im looking for.

Ladies I just want whats best for you and sometimes a person on the outside can see better, your vison is blurred {tainted} because what you feel. Im always here if you ever need to talk just call on me.

-Jonez