Secret Indiscrections

Ok So as a human I usually mind my business, If something isnt personally affecting me I let it be. No, Im not going to do anything If I see some craziness going on but I usually keep your affairs personal. Sometimes hearing (learning) the truth is harder to accept and the person usually just turns on you. So If I see your significant out with someone who isnt you, or If I know that the lines she's feeding you are just that, or If I know your about to have a real problem... I keep it to myself. I'd rather avoid all problems and confrontations, however I know if I say something its going to blow up in my face.

I have to change names to respect their privacy.

So a few weeks ago Bubba, who is married, started hanging out with a female friend, Lola. Bubba has been spending a lot of time with Lola and his wife, Betty, know nothing about it. I dont think there's anything wrong with having friends but if your partner doesnt know about it then thats the problem. So Im assuming Bubba had to make up a few white lies about his whereabouts while he was with Lola, and I think those lies including me. Im a lil upset because I dont want to get Bubba in trouble with his wife but I dont want to lie either. Theres only BUT so many times I can use the line "I dont know" or "I dont remember". Im annoyed that Bubba would put me in this positions and even though Im mad at him, for unrelated reasons, Im not going to blow up his spot. Is that Wrong? Do I owe Betty a truthful explanation even though doing so could possibly end a marriage?

I found out that my friends fiancee who was about 3 months pregnant got an abortion. Jordan, my friend is away at school, but I highly doubt he knows anything about it. I never met his fiancee, Lisa, but I've seen photos, thats how I recognized her. I was being a friend's support system when I spotted her with my own eyes at the clinic! I know it isnt my place to say anything, and I dont think I could say anything but Lisa is telling him she lost the baby. I feel horrible and my loyalties do not lie with her but Do I stick my neck out to say something? OR Let Jordan go into a marriage with Lisa, the liar?

Decisions, Decisions

Jonezster