Thursday, September 11, 2008

Am I Dreaming?

Dear Jones,
I've been with my girlfriend for a little over two years and I'm in love. Christina, my girl, is everything I could want in a partner. She's gorgeous, intelligent, she motivates me, cooks and brings home the bulk of our income. Sounds perfect Right? Well it is but I can't stop thinking about my ex girlfriend Stacy. Stacy only made one mistake while we were together but that one slip up cost us our relationship but I still have feelings for her. I'm stuck because I'm not sure if I should remain faithful to Christina (which I have been since we met) or if I should date Stacy (on the side) just to see if it could possibly work again.
-Mr.Right

Dear MR,
I commend you for being and staying faithful (thus far) to your current beau. But isn't that what a monogamus relationship consist of? If Christina is the girl of your dreams, then why would you give that up for a dream deferred? Obviously Stacy is the wrong choice, but you don't need me to tell you that, you did break up with her. Right? A relationship with Stacy will never work simply because you are both still the same as when you dated before. Whatever situation made you dump her the first time will happen again. So why jeoperdize your dream girl? Now dating Stacy will do two things, (A) ruin your relationship with Christina and (B) crush your chances of a real relationship forming with Stacy. So MR I advise you to really think about if Stacy is really worth you losing what have built with your dream girl. . . But somehow I doubt she is.
-Jones

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