I just finished reading the advice column title, 'Work Related', and I wanted to write in. SURF, please don't take it to that level with your follow co worker. I was in your shoes a year ago and I must say it was a really bad choice. We started out as friends and he also filled my head with the possibility of starting a relationship. I figured since he wanted a relationship, then us sleeping together before I officially became his girlfriend wouldn't matter. How wrong was I! It seemed a few weeks after the sex started, I was no closer to becoming his girlfriend. We still had yet to do anything more than go to the movies. As time went on, he started to call less and ignore me more at work. I didn't like him brushing me off so I started to investigate, I learned he was involved with another co worker. I decided he wasn't worth my time so I ended the sexual relationship. The next day my secret office affair was very much public. I was so embarrassed I ended up requesting a transfer to another office. The point I'm making is unless you think he may be your soul mate, which I highly doubt, Don't give him your goods!
-Paula
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