Thursday, March 26, 2009

Knock you Down

Dear Jones, How much time should pass before a person starts dating after a break up? -Single in the city

Dear Sitc, There's no guideline for me to go by to really answer that question. It all depends on what feels right to you. If after two months you're ready to start dating then go for it. You wont know for sure until you actually meet someone. After my break up I thought I was ready to move forward after three months, I started to get to know someone but that's when I realized it was too early for me. I was open and honest with homeboy about recently becoming single so he totally understood my situation. We have since remained part time friends. My point is be honest with whomever you are interested in. Do you have to give them a full report about your dating history, No. I doubt they honestly want to hear how and why another man jilted you. You can however let them know your intentions & just take it easy. See how everything flows and take it from there. Since you are so fresh out of a relationship, jumping into another one should be the last thing on your list. This should be the time you focus on yourself and make sure you leave all the baggage from your past in the past. -Tristan Jones

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