I've always been against office romances but we've recently added a new addition to the team. The friendship was slow starting off (It took about 3 months before I said hello). As of lately we speak often on the phone and I find myself longing to talk to him. As far as I know nobody at the job suspects anything and I'm doing everything to keep it that way. I haven't done anything more than talk to him on the phone. He keeps promising to take me out but everytime we make plans he cancels last minute. Just last night, he explained he isn't built for a relationship however he wants all the benefits of one. I'm generally okay with a friends with benefits relationship but I feel he couldve said this earlier into the friendship. In the beginning he said he wanted to work on building a relationship with me since I'm a relationship person. I'm hesitant to move forward to something sexual because I feel he is only telling me what he thinks I want to hear for his own benefit.
-Sex Ultimately Ruins Friendships.
Dear SURF,
If you are hesitant, that's your conscience telling you not to do it! Go with your thoughts, if you believe he is only telling you something you want to hear then that's probably what he's doing. Instead of being totally honest he went a different route to see if he could come out with the same results; sex with you. While knowing all this if you still follow through with a sexual relationship be prepared for the after math, if any. I know it's a sticky situation since you two work together but I think you should remain just friends.
-Jones.
Oh BTW, since he likes to make plans and cancel do the same to him. Make plans to satisfy him but call and cancel at least thrity minutes before you are supposed to arrive. Give him a taste of his medicine!
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