Role Model Wrote:
I jus read that reply u left on FB. I don't know where mommy went wrong (with u), but I sure hope u deal with watever ur issues are b4 u hav children. I would hate for u to be in my position. And it bothers me that I can't look to u for assistance in my situation. That is a non issue at this point. U are an adult and u changing ur name is ur choice but, realize it does not disconnect u from who u are. And out of curiosity y not change it to mommys name IF u were having some crisis being a C? Who the f*ck is Smith? But any who I hav come to term with even though we are born into families doesn't really mean the you have that FAMILY bond. I love u as my sister and hope that one day we may be as sisters truly should. It was mentioned to me that u don't speak to Mooda that is your choice being as I hav no number for you, and u were never told that you couldn't call her. And since auntie and 'Yana hav the number I am only to assume that u didn't want me to have it. Once again no love lost. Jus understand that I am not keeping u from Mooda. Sent via BlackBerry from T-Mobile
Tristan Jones Response:
It took me twenty minutes before I could start typing because I didn't want you to feel I was coming at you any type of way. Mommy didn't go wrong with me, she loved me with her whole heart. I know what it's like to be loved, to be listened to, to have someone take my ideas seriously and to encourage/support me. Because of mommy I've been able to follow my dreams, I've written two completed novels (that are both execellent reads), ive also written two short stories,I've graduated from college with an associates degree and I'm now going for my ba n English. I have a blog with a decent following and I actually have fans who are encouraged by my words. I think when and if I have kids, I'll be a great mother. I'll be the type of parent mine was to me. I don't think you should be the one to judge how I'll be as a parent. I would also hate to be in your position, because I would hate for my child to feel the way yours feels about you. U have come to me for assistance in the past and I've been there,ALWAYS. I've made sacrifices just so I could stay in NYC and help u with whatever was needed. I was the make up artist and I couldn't even go to LA, to study and do my thing. Mooda & EMM is my heart, and for them I would give them world and everything in it. I don't rock with you because u don't listen. And I mean really listen. Most times you come off as a bitter a$s black woman. Maybe it's because your older you feel as though you can give advice, and advice is cool. But I don't have to take it, and you shouldn't feel a certain way when I choose to do my own thing, instead of listening to u. About facebook, I started a page 4 yrs ago and that was only to catch someone being slick, I chose any name! I don't want to 'disconnect' with family, that's already happened. None of y'all know how to deal with me. Don't take my anti social behavior for something else. I'm a writer so I'm sometimes inside my own head more than in the world. I wasn't speaking to Mooda/EMM right now though the phone cuz then I would have to talk to you. And honestly I didn't want to fcuk with you. U have talked MADD sh!t about me to other fam, even when ive said nothing about you. It's like I have to walk around egg shells with u, making sure not to say the wrong thing or use the wrong tone, while you say whatever the hell you want how you want. You are right, I'm an adult, an I do for myself, by myself and I won't be disrespected by you or anyone else. Period. 'Yana doesn't have the number, and if she does it's only because she's my nail stylist. I called Auntie because I thought she could be an ally, she has my number but we don't hold conversations. The problem is niggas wanna run back to you saying whatever, come to me if u have a problem. Stop listening to what niggas tell you and come to the horses mouth. I will always love u cuz u my sister but if u want to have a relationship with me there are compromises that have to made on both sides. Oh and btw, I was only joking about changing my name, I am and will always be Tiffany Nicole C, however I do go by my pen name Tristan Jones.
Role Model Wrote:
Too much bullsh!t to read. Get therapy!!! Hopefully u will realize that u need it. And as far as my kids u couldn't help me cuz ur a$s don't know if u coming or goin. But congrats on ur accomplishments past and future. Its about time u got off ur ass and did something. And I never held u back from anything. You held u back. Don't worry about communicating with my kids cuz truthfully I don't wanna fcuk with ur a$s either!! They won't be any worse off without u in their life. As for how my daughter feels she too will get over it. Bitter never! No reason to bitter especially concerning u. I was loved jus as u was by the same person so whatever u r tryin to imply, kill it. Sounds like u have some hate in ur blood and I don't get it. And as far as advice we all gonna do wat we want at the end of the day. But doin wat makes sense is key! Sisters we will always be, friends? well that's something else. We will still both live and breathe. I did wat I was asked to do. And sorry u didn't appreciate that. Such is life. As for talking sh!t about u? NEGATIVE! the truth is always the truth. And don't mention u unless someone else does. I hav too many other things that I can talk about. And how can I judge u on something ur not? Read again this time read what I wrote and not what u think I meant. Sent via BlackBerry from T-Mobile
Tristan J Says:
I feel so much pity towards my sibling. It saddens me that she is the way she is, however I dont have to deal with it and I wont. I dont have hate in my heart for her at all, at this point I dont even wish things were different. Hopefully she will/is doing something positive and constructive with her life and is influencing her daughters positively. As far as Tristan J having a sister, She doesnt anymore.
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