I hope you all are cool with me answering some of the question you all are emailing. The inbox is getting quite full and I believe I can offer up some good advice. And yes TJ Im going be as sensitive as I possibly can.
Here's a good one. . .
Dear Jones,
I've been dating my current beau for about eight months and it's an exclusive relationship except I have yet to meet his family. I introduced him to my parents a few weeks ago but he has failed to schedule a time when I can meet with his. I know he has dinner with his family every Sunday after church, so would it be so wrong of me to "surprise"him one afternoon?
-In the Shadow alone
Dear Inta,
Surprising your boyfriend, at his parents house no less, might hurt you more than it helps. If he hasn' invited you to meet his parents, it's because he doesn't want you to meet them, not yet anyway. Guys are not on the same "schedule" as women so something that may happen for you at six months might take him a year. I wouldn't worry until years have gone by and his fam still has no idea as to who you are.
-Kevy Kev
Aight one more . . .
Dear Tristan J,
I broke up with my ex a few months ago (Not a bad break up) and we've since began dating others. She recently confided in me that she's pregnant however she's not 100% sure who the father is. I know I shouldve used a condom with her if I was going to sex her but what's done is done. What should I do now?
-Down and Dirty
Yo Dad,
First get tested! How are you going to run up in any girl (ex or otherwise) without your rain coat? The least of your worries could be baby. Second when the baby is born get a DNA test to determine who is the biological father and take it from there. If your the father, man up and be there for your kid. If the baby isn't yours, let this be a lesson learned.
-Kevy Kev
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