Friday, October 16, 2009

According to Jonez

Dear Jonez,
I wont date outside my race, Does that make me racist?
-No substitutes

Dear No Substitutes,
No that doesnt make you a racist, it makes you closed minded. Do you have friends of other races? Does your parents? Our parents are our first teachers, so maybe you picked up more than your ABC's from them? There's definitely nothing wrong in having a preference on the type of females you'd like to date. I do believe your limiting yourself to the type of person you'll end up with. Variety is the spice of life, but your no different than that one man who will only date petite women, or the woman who will only date men without kids.
Have you ever tried to date outside your race? Do you frequent places where other races mix & mingle? If not, maybe you should. You could also join groups that cater to what your interested in. Groups will definitely open up your eyes to people different from you but who have the same interests as you. Maybe its time you expand your horizons at just more than race. And if you never date someone of another race, dont sweat it as long as your happy.

Jonez

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