I'm thirteen but I don't have a boyfriend. I'm a freshmen in high school and I know I should focus on school but all the other girls have boyfriends. I'm not part of the in crowd but I'm not a total geek either. How do I get guys to notice me?
-High school Loner
Dear Sweetheart,
Your thirteen! Enjoy being young and innocent. You are just entering high school, this yr along with your junior year is what colleges look at so this is when you should be the most focused. You don't have to do anything specific to get noticed by a guy. It's when you start doing things that attracts the most attention and usually it's the wrong type. A high school reputation is one that most people will identify you and if it's not a good one, it's hard to shake. I'd rather be known for who I really am rather than who people assume I am. And so what if the other girls have boyfriends? One thing about growing up you'll learn is to follow your own path. Who cares what the other girls are doing? Does it means they are happy? Of course not. The appearances people paint are just that, paint! It's a facade they put on to seem like they have it all. Until you walked in their shoes nevermind what you think they have. All that glitters isn't Gold or even Gold coated.
-Jonez
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