Sparks.

I've been thinking about getting a boyfriend but Im really content with being single. So anyway I was approached by a guy this past week, he was chocolate, average height, average looking and persistent. So we chitchatted for a while that night in person until it started to rain. So he's older, late 20's but there were NO Sparks. I mean I thought he was cool, I would def like to get to know him better but Im in no rush to become the next Mrs. He on the other hand felt/feels differently. Last night we were texting each other and he kept asking 'did I think about the night we were talking?', 'have I thought about him', and 'did I feel the connection to him as he did for me?'. Im like WHOA!! For someone who literally just met me, these questions were way too much. It was like asking, after the first date, if I wanted to marry him. Sometimes I wonder if Im being too hard, or not opened minded enough to date, but what could my response be to his questions? Say no I didnt feel a connection and possibly hurt his feelings or lie, say yes and give him false hope? I did a lil of both, I told him "I enjoyed our conversation and look forward to many more"... Not a total lie!

Tristan J