I'm ready to give up! I'm very interested in the guy I'm dating however I don't think he is as interested in me. We have been seeing each other for a few months but it's a long distance thing. Trey lives about Seven hours away from me. In the beginning we were seeing a lot of each other but I haven't seen him in three months, even though he may be in town. I've voiced my concerns and even told him his actions show he doesn't want something serious. Trey says this is what he wants and he is just extremely busy. I'm starting to feel like I'm wasting my time. Should I stay?
-Long distance sucks
Dear LDS,
If you feel like you're wasting your time you probably are. Trey sounds like he might want to work it out but his words aren't matching his actions. For some people long distances are hard to maintain without a great amount of trust. He may just be that busy that he can't give anymore of his time than he is. LDS, it's doesn't seem like you two are exclusive so you are more than free to date other people, don't just settle with Trey. You may want to keep your options opened.
-Jonez
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Dont lower yur standards for anyone. Set them and stick to it. Aman will only go as far as you allow him. Do not tolerate his ignorance. Words are words but in the end action gives the words meanings. Communicate your feelings but if you constantly need to repeat yourself or see no effort towards change (doesnt happen overnight) then keep it moving. While feeling may have deveolped on your end, the same way you attempted to make it work with him is the same way you can apply those efforts elsewhere to someone who appreciates you and is willing to spend time with you. Good Luck
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