Sunday, June 7, 2009

Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?

So the topic of discussion at work was why do men cheat? Obviously there are millions of reasons why men cheat but IMO lack of respect should be number one. If you have respect for yourself or your partner you wouldn't do it. I put together a list of some of the excuses that were given.

*They aren't getting what they need at home.
MY RESPONSE: Then make it work @ home, COMMUNICATION PLEASE?!

*Their partner will allow it - Take them back
MY RESPONSE: People will only do what you allow them to do!

*It just happened
MY RESPONSE: Stop putting yourself in those situations where something can 'Just happen'

*Their partners have limits on what they will do, sexually
MY RESPONSE: Then voice your frustrations, if your partner know you arent fulfilled sexually, they will make changes!!

*They know they won't get caught
MY RESPONSE: Everything done in the dark will definately come to the light. Nothing stays hidden forever, trust!

*There's no better feeling than sex with someone new.
MY RESPONSE: While that might be true, just stay single so you are free to date & sex whomever.

At the end of day the reason vary from person to person, however the outcome is still the same. You hurt the person you are cheating on, and if you care about them that should matter. I've been cheated on as you ALL know and I think that screwed something up with me, emotionally and mentally. So ppl, think about the long term consequences before you partake in the actions. Just because you might not get caught today, doesnt mean your free and clear.

------->> Jonezz

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2 comments:

  1. larreshaJune 10, 2009 at 12:37 AM

    Well once a cheater is def not always a cheater! I've cheated and it really made me see hurt and pain in his face something I never seen before and it pierced my heart like a bullet and made me feel really bad about myself and I then realized I was lookin in the mirror of pain I once felt and realized I did something horribly wrong which at the time felt so right! cheating feels good while ur doing it but wen its out in the open and exposed and ur relationship is at stack u want to take it back so in the end its not worth it!

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  2. AnonymousJune 10, 2009 at 10:42 PM

    Well to a certain degree I agree with Larresha. Once you cheat if you really love that person you see the damage that you do, but i makes you wonder if you love them so much why did you do it in the first place. We all make mistakes but once we do it there is always the possibility we may do it again. In the end when you love someone it isnt worth sacrificing what you've built for a quick sexcapade. If your unhappy just leave the relationship n consider the situation if the table was turned.....

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