Wednesday, June 24, 2009

Let's Play Pretend

As I was sitting on the train headed to work, a random thought was I hate gold diggers, male & female. I cant stand someone who pretends to have feelings for someone just to reap the benefits of that attraction. I cant respect someone who dates with an agenda. Why do you feel that person owes you something just 'cuz they have money or status. Society is becoming so obsessed with keeping up appearances Rather than living within their means. Yes I do believe that the cookie isn't free however I'm not telling you to go out and whoring yourself. I'm talking about if your dating someone, if you cook for them five nights a week they should at least buy you groceries. There's a thin line between being a gold digger and being someone who isn't letting someone else use them.
For example, I know of an older female (mid thirties) now dating a younger man (mid twenties) only because he's a professional athlete. You cant help who you fall for but if the older female sought him out that could be confused as gold digging. Personally its a fact that she only dates men who can finance the lifestyle she feels she deserves! WRONG!! If you feel you deserve a certain type of lifestyle its for you to make happen. Stop being dependant on others!
~Tristan J

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