According to Jonez

Does a man having multiple kids by different woman raise any red flags for you, his potiential next woman (victim)?

Dear Jonez,
My man has eight kids by six different women, two of whom are ex wives. I do care about him but eight kids are a bit overwhelming. My man is a great father, that much I can confirm but since he has so many failed relationship should I be worried?
-I really want my man

Dear I really want my man,
Sometimes the things we want for ourselves, is not always the best choice. Because your man has 8 kids and has been married and divorced twice doesn't just raise red flags it screams "RUN don't t just walk away". What was it that made all his relationships fail? I strongly suggest before you meet the kiddies or even have sex with him, you get to know him throughly. Find out all you can about him from him to determine if you're even that interested. If you are still 'his woman' decide on the things you would like to build with him. Do you want kids? Would his kids be accepted by you and your family? Would you want to get Married? Would he? I think before it gets serious questions like the ones above need to be asked and answered.
-Tristan Jonez

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