After my break up in October, I considered exploring my option of being celibate. I was not ready for dating or a relationship plus I wasn't into casual sex so being celibate seemed like the way to go. I honestly believe sex complicates friendships. The focus should not be on sex but on what compliments friends, such as building a stronger bond. Alot of emphasis is put on sex, which can break a bond. However how strong was the bond if it was broken because sex was sub par? Alot of time men are so in a hurry to bed a female that whats your HIV/STD status didn't even have a chance of being asked. I wanted more from a man! I wanted the guarantee that he was interested in me, my intellect, my passion as a writer, my future goals, etc. I just don't think i could have that guarantee as long as i was having sex w/ them. I honestly don't care, in fact I encourage any guys Im seeing to have sex with other people. NO I don't need a full report unless I ask for one. This way I would know you was only interested in who I am as a person rather than what I could offer you.
-Jonez
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