I've been celibate for a year due to the lack in eligible bachelors. I was tired of allowing men to be physically stimulated while failing to mentally stimulate me. Anyway I've been dating a great guy who I see an actual future with. "Todd" doesn't pressure me for sex however he does know that Im practicing celibacy. I want to cement our courtship but how will I know he'll stay after he hits it?
-Celibate in the Windy City
Dear Celibate in the Windy City,
I commend you on being and remaining celibate. Your body is a temple, and not everyone deserves entry inside. "Todd" seems like a gentleman... or he could be a pretender. Just playing a game to see if he can actually bed you. However the signs are there to determine which one he is.
Does he do little thing to let you know he cares?
Does he acknowledge and puts your needs before his own?
Is he willing to try new things based on your suggestion?
Does he include you in his plans willingly and without pre though?
Have you been introduced to those closest to him including his parents?
Most importantly are you happy?
Celibate in the windy city, I guess you have to make sure both of you are on the same page, so communication should be key. Do you want to be in a relationship with "Todd" before or after it turns sexual. Before you do anything find out exactly what he want and that should determine whether or not you should become intimate with him. Keep me posted with that.
Tristan Jonez
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