I just finished reading the posting "Choice vs Life" and I think I feel a certain type of way about it. I'm unable to have kids and I'm sick of these girls having abortions. I don't understand why it's so hard for them to practice safe sex. Making your partner use condoms is really not hard but I don't think these girls are even speaking up. But then when they pop up pregnant, they are soo surprised! I'm so sick of the clinic being their personal form of birth control. If you wasn't ready to give birth then make him strap it up!! I don't know what upsets me more, the fact that I can't have kids or the fact that they are so willing to throw theirs away. A few weeks ago I had to do everything in my power to keep from exploding when I found out my bestfriend had an abortion. She has known for years how badly I've wanted a child but yet she still went and aborted. I couldve raised, loved and taken care of that child, but instead she chose to think of herself. I've gotten over the initial shock of her actions but I'm not sure I can remain her friend.
-Bad friend forever?
Dear Bff,
I'm so sorry that you can't have children and yes you are entitled to feel how you feel. We aren't always going to agree with our friends decisions however as friends we should put our feelings aside and be there for them. Do you know why she got an abortion? Or are you assuming it was because she didn't want it? Your friend couldve done what she thought was her only choice, whatever the case, as her friend she needs your support. So bff for the time being, be the support system she desperately needs right now.
-Jonez
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ReplyDeletePersonally I myself am totally against abortions, protect yourself then I realized my views exemplified only pessimism. I dislike females who use abortion clinics as their birth ctrl I believe incase their is a so called slip up then more the 2-3 abortoins is a no-no and that person is being irresponisble. But what happens to those who may have run into unforeseen circumstances, ppl do get raped and get pregnant from it or maybe it really was an accident and they are woman enough to realize I am not ready to be a mother so in the early stages they terminate it. An abortion is a hard thing to deal with and personally its something I never look forward to but Im not going to judge someone whose life I know nothing about, just make sure your equally or more productive in life if you decide to have one.
I def agree with you Star. I try my best NOT to judge esp when I dont have the whole story. I just get a little upset when everytime they get pregnant they run to the clinic.
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