I believe watching Pretty Woman as a kid f(cked me up. I honestly dont think its a movie a child who is still shaping & forming her opinions of the World should watch. Remember the scene where Julia Roberts has come home with Richard Gere, she pulls out her assortment of condoms and proceeds to explain to him her rules of engagement. The one & Only rule that stuck with me thru adulthood was NO KISSING ON THE MOUTH EVER! As I got older I started to really think about that. So its alright to have sexual relations with someone however to kiss them is not allowed? Now that seem backwards, doesnt it? As we all know love isnt sex and sex isnt love! In my opinion you can easily detach yourself from the emotional elements of sex and keep it strickly physical. Some people dont know how to separate the two which is fine. But for the ppl who do know how, does this mean we are missing out on something? Obviously I've been kissed before but it comes much later into the courtship. Everyone have their "things" they wont allow, for me its NO kissing. I have a friend who doesnt like to receive oral sex. some would say she bugged out but for her its a comfort issue. She's just not comfortable having a man be so close to her. Everyone has boundaries so what's yours?
-Jonez
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