Can I have some... SEX?

First date sex! Are there any rules or can anything go? Obviously theres a double standard however can you build a lasting relationship from first date sex? If a person puts out does that mean you are now hesitant about actually moving forward in any direction?

Personally I don't think theres a thing wrong with having sex on the first date, if that's your choice. It becomes a problem when your date (M or F) is pressuring you to do it. Sometimes a woman wants to just fu*k and theres nothing wrong with that. Men seem to want to put labels on woman for the certain activities they choose to partake in. If I'm a ho for having sex on the first date then he is a ho as well because Im not having sex with myself. I honestly believe that sex shouldn't be a major focus but it is a key element.

For instance a friend of mine Kima* was interested in this guy. They had mutual friends but she didnt really know anything about him except he had a beautiful face and was studying to be a lawyer. Anyway he asked her out and she slept with him as a nightcap. For Kima the sex lacked everything and he didn't make her c*m so she knew he wasn't someone she wanted to actively pursue. I'm not sure I agree with her 100% because sex could always get better. Do I believe they were wrong for having sex? NOT AT ALL!! They are both grown so as long as they protected themselves, its whatever. Kima would even say she did him a favor. Her logic is by having sex now she is saving him time and money later on.

I guess she figures if the sex was wack after a few dates and time spent getting to know each other she would've left anyway. Either way do you honestly believe sex can kill a budding relationship before it even starts?

-Tristan J